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Daily Encounter: A Week-day Devotional by a staff of ACTS International. |
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The Importance of Appreciation
“So, encourage each other and build each other up,
just as you are already doing.”1 A few years ago, Dr. Nick Stinnett of the University
of Nebraska conducted a group of studies called the "Family Strengths
Research Project".
Stinnett
and his researchers identified six qualities that make for strong families. The
first quality and one of the most important to be found in strong families was
the quality of appreciation. Families that are strong are strong in part, Dr.
Stinnett concludes, because family members express to each other their
appreciation for what the other members DO and for who they ARE.
In
a similar study another researcher looked into the effect of praise in the
workplace.
His
study showed that the ratio of praise to criticism in the workplace needs to be
four to one before employees feel that there is a balance - that there must be
four times as much praise as there is criticism before they feel good about
their work and about the environment they work in.2 In this month of Thanksgiving, I encourage
you to start with reframing your mindset to focus more on appreciation and thanksgiving,
than on criticism and negativity. Perhaps this is something you already practice,
in which case I commend and encourage you to continue blessing others in this
way. If, like myself, this is something you struggle with from time to time, I
encourage you to start implementing praise in your conversations and interactions.
Whether it be with your children, spouse, neighbor, friend, or family member,
think of ways to build them up. In return you will experience great joy as you
learn to be more like Jesus in this way. Suggested prayer: Dear Heavenly Father, at times my
human tendency focuses on the negative side of things before taking all the positive
into consideration. I ask that you give me your heart and eyes, full of
compassion, that I can learn to build others up with all I say and do. I want
my family, and every place I go, to be stronger and blessed. Please start this
work with me. Thank you for hearing and answering my prayer. In Jesus’ name,
amen. 1 Thessalonians 5:11 (NLT). Today's Encounter was written by: Crystal B. |
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