“Two people
are better off than one, for they can help each other succeed. If one person
falls, the other can reach out and help. But someone who falls alone is in real
trouble.”1
As a young
teenager, I remember watching boxing matches on Saturday nights with my dad. The
excitement would rise as we heard the announcer say with a booming voice, “In
this corner, weighing 230 pounds, the heavyweight champion of the world…” then he
would give a name spiced up with descriptive adjectives. He would then go on to
announce the opponent in the same manner. We would watch as the coach would
give the boxer his final words of advice and encouragement and then send him
into battle. Round after round the boxers would return to their corners where
their coaches were waiting with a stool, water, ice, and towels to care for
them. The coaches’ words helped keep the boxer focused on the plan, and the ultimate
goal of winning the victory.
During my
adult years, I have often thought back on those nights with my dad. Little did I
know at the time that life itself would be similar in many ways to those boxing
matches. We may not have someone announcing our every opponent, but every day
we face opposition in many areas. Sometimes we endure many punches as we go
through our day. Our life is composed of many rounds as we pass through each
phase of life. We are in a battle, not against flesh and blood, but against the
powers of this dark world and the spiritual forces of evil (Ephesians 6:12).
Just like a
boxer in a professional fight, we need to have someone in our corner to support
and encourage us as we fight the battles of life. Someone who will keep us
grounded in faith when things get hard, someone we can trust and talk to
openly, someone who will offer advice without criticism, someone who will
challenge us to do our best, someone who will love and accept us regardless of
our mistakes, and someone who will carry our burdens with us when it becomes too
much to handle alone.
God is our
first line of defense and has promised to never leave us nor forsake us, but it
is also important to surround ourselves with people that God has placed in our
lives to be there when we need it. And just as these friends will point us back
to God as they help us, may we also be ready to be that support and
encouragement for others as well.
Suggested
prayer: Dear God, thank you for your unconditional love and for never leaving or
forsaking me. Thank you, also, for the people you have placed in “my corner” to
help me through the battles of life. May their words and actions always point
me back to you, the source of our strength. Help me be this source of
encouragement for others and be as Jesus to them when they need it most. Thank
you for hearing and answering my prayer. In Jesus’ name, amen.
Ecclesiastes 4:9-10 (NLT).