Simple Acts of Kindness
“Anyone who withholds kindness from a friend
forsakes the fear of the Almighty.”1
While walking home from school, Mark noticed the boy
ahead of him had stumbled to the ground and dropped everything he was carrying.
Mark hurried to the boy’s side and helped him collect his belongings.
Surprisingly, the boy was carrying an especially hefty load. There was a
baseball glove and bat, a couple of sweaters, a small tape recorder, and an
armful of books. Mark helped him carry the things home and his new friend,
Bill, was most appreciative of his compassion. During the walk home, Mark
discovered Bill was struggling in school and had just broken up with his
girlfriend. When they arrived at Bill’s house, he invited Mark in for a Coke
and they spent the rest of the afternoon talking, laughing, and watching TV.
Although the two boys never became real close friends, they kept up with each
other throughout the rest of junior high and high school. Several weeks before
graduation, Bill approached Mark and asked him if he remembered that day they
met when Mark helped him with all of his stuff. Mark nodded as he remembered.
Bill then asked, “Did you ever wonder why I was carrying so many things that
day?” Without pausing for an answer, Bill explained he had cleaned out his
locker and was going home to take his life. He had been storing away sleeping
pills and was headed home to end it all when Mark happened along to help him
out. Bill told Mark how that simple act of compassion inspired him to go on
living. He said, “Mark, when you picked up my books that day, you saved my
life!”
Imagine how many times our small, seemingly
insignificant acts of kindness or concern for others may be just the thing that
person needs to continue on. The burdens of life can sometimes be too much to
carry alone, but with the love and kindness of one friend, it can make that
load so much lighter. Be alert to those around you and ask God to help you be as
Jesus to them.
Suggested prayer: Dear God, each day I see dozens of
people and have no way of knowing the struggles they may be carrying. I ask
that you fill me with compassion and that the simplest acts of kindness would
be used by you to give someone hope. Thank you for hearing and answering my prayer.
In Jesus’ name, amen.
Job 6:14 (NIV).
Chicken Soup for the Soul, Jack Canfield and Mark
Hansen, 1993, p. 35
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