“Do not be deceived: ‘Bad company ruins
good morals.’”1
The apostle Paul was an amazing
example of what it looks like to stand for truth, despite the opposition. In
today’s passage, his passion for the gospel is evident as he once again reminds
the Corinthian people of the gospel truth. He warns them to “not be deceived” by
people who may want to convince them otherwise.
Today, we need to adhere to the same
warning, as we are constantly surrounded by a multitude of differing opinions
and self-proclaimed truths. Even within our friendship circles, we can face the
temptation to falter in our faith and be deceived. There is no denying that friendships
are an important part of life. We are relational beings and God doesn’t want us
to be alone. However, we should also seek wisdom from God in choosing our
friends and ask Him to put the right people in our paths. Does this mean that
we should only seek to befriend like-minded people? Not necessarily. Having
differing opinions with others allows for growth and opportunities to practice
speaking the truth in love. The way we respond to difficult situations can be a
great testimony to others of our faith. The problem arises when, instead of
being an example to others of Christ, they influence us to go against what we
know is true.
William Gladstone said, “Choose wisely
your companions, for a young man’s companions, more than his food or clothes,
his home or his parents, make him what he is.” While many of us may have
received godly advice and education in our homes growing up, we have also seen
how that foundation can be corrupted by the influences we allow in our lives.
Let us choose to be a friend that will
motivate others to follow truth, love Jesus, and glorify Him with their
decisions. Then let us ask God to provide friends that will help us do the
same.
Suggested prayer: Dear God, thank you
for the gift of friendships. I pray that you would help me stand for Your truth
and encourage others to do the same. Help me be a friend that will help others
draw closer to you and motivate them to fulfill the purpose you have for them. Guide
me, also, to friends who will do the same for me. Thank you for hearing and
answering my prayer. In Jesus’ name, amen.
1 Corinthians 15:33 (GNT).