Emotions
The fruit of
the Spirit is love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness, faithfulness,
gentleness and self-control.1
Imagine living in a world without emotions. It would be like living in a world
without colorâ€"a world without blue skies, white fluffy clouds, red roses, or
beautiful rainbows and sunsets. Everything would be a dull monotonous gray.
Life would be deadly dull and boring. This is also the case when we ignore or
repress our emotions.
Many of us grew up learning that feelings were not important and that you
could not trust them. Regardless of how we felt mentally or emotionally, we were
taught to keep going, put on a positive face, and do this until we made it past
those negative emotions. For some, feelings of hopelessness or depression meant
you didn’t have enough faith or that somehow your spiritual life was lacking.
We were even taught to face the death of a loved one with a positive attitude
because of the hope of Heaven, all while repressing our true feelings of grief
and sadness. I praise God for the gift of salvation and the
hope of being in Heaven with Him one day, however, I am also aware that processing
through grief is a journey.
God made us and
gave us each and every emotion. Emotions are an inner monitor letting us know
what is going on inside of us. The more we are in touch with our true emotions,
the more they can inform us when our life is out of harmony and we need an
emotional tune up, caution us of impending danger, warn us when we are around
unsafe people, affirm us when we are with safe people, guide us when we have
major decisions to make, keep us in tune with the Spirit leading us, and assure us when
our life is in harmony with others and God. Honestly, if we do not understand
them, they can be quite confusing!
Life without emotions can be quite boring. So, instead of trying to repress or
ignore them, let us see them for what they truly are… gifts from God to help us
live a meaningful life.
Suggested prayer: Dear God, you desire truth in the innermost being, so I ask that
you please deliver me from denying my true emotions. Help me appreciate my true
feelings, which are a gift from you, and learn how to understand them and
express them in healthy ways. Thank you, in the name of Jesus I pray, amen.
1. Galatians 5:22 (NIV).
The Encounter for today was written by: Crystal B.
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